What would you do? My 10-year-old wants a smartphone because ‘everyone else has one’: 5 mothers share what happened next
It usually begins with a sentence that sounds impossible to argue with. “Everyone in my class has a phone.” Sometimes it comes during the school pickup. Sometimes at bedtime. Sometimes right after a birthday party where another child proudly showed off a new smartphone. And suddenly, the debate enters your home. Your 10-year-old says they need a phone to stay connected with friends. They say they’re the only ones without one. They tell you they feel left out.
You aren’t sure what worries you more: giving them a smartphone or making them feel excluded. Because parenting today comes with a problem previous generations never had to solve. There is no universal rule. Some children have smartphones in Class 4. Others wait until high school. And almost every parent wonders if they’re getting it wrong.
We imagined a situation many families quietly struggle with and asked: What would you do if your 10-year-old wanted a smartphone because “everyone else has one”? Five mothers share the decisions they made and what happened afterward.
