When Narayana Murthy kept Sudha Murty’s father waiting for 2 hours: 5 mistakes to avoid while meeting in-laws for the first time – Times of India

When Narayana Murthy kept Sudha Murty’s parents waiting for 2 hours

One of the most respected couples in India, Infosys founder Narayana Murthy and his wife Sudha Murty recently appeared on The Great Indian Kapil Show wherein they gave a glimpse for their marriage and humble life. In the candid chat, Rajya Sabha member-philanthropist-author Sudha Murty spoke about her love story with Narayana Murty. She also revealed how Narayana Murthy was late to meet her father for the very first time which left a poor impression of him.
Recalling the incident, Sudha Murty said that Narayana Murthy as late for two hours as his taxi broke down. Her father, who was a professor, was quite particular about time and so by being late, Narayana Murthy failed to impress her father in the very first meeting!
“My father asked me about Narayana Murthy’s work and when he came he said that he wanted to join politics and open an orphanage. My father thought: ‘How much Narayana Murthy was earning?’, and ‘What his salary would be?’… My father thought highly of me as in those days not many women pursued engineering,” Sudha Murty shared.
Sharing his side of the story of meeting his father-in-law for the first time, Narayana Murthy added, “I was a bit playful and even a bit adventurous. I thought, ‘Okay, let him be angry.’”

While, being late is definitely something one should avoid when meeting their to-be in-laws for the first time, here we list some other thigs to keep in mind to impress one’s in-laws:
1. Dress up well
Being well groomed and dressed to meet your in-laws for the first time shows that you take the meeting seriously. It also shows that your sincerity for the occasion.
2. Do not talk too much about yourself
While one should sinncerely answer questions about their work, family or personal life when asked, one should aboiod talking too much or boasting about themselves in front of their in-laws. Instead, be honest and humble while speaking to them.
3. Avoid PDA and do not critice your partner (even jokingly)
Remember, meeting your to-be in-laws for the first time is a formal event. And so, avoid overly doing any PDA. Also, do not criticise your partner or make fun of their quirks even in jokes as it can be considered disrespectful to their family. Instead, speak positively about your partner to make a good impression on your in-laws.
4. Respect their cultural or family traditions
Every family has its own customs. If you’re unfamiliar with them, show respect and curiosity. Avoid making comments that may seem dismissive or critical, and ask questions if needed.
5. Don’t try too hard to impress
Trying too hard to impress your to-be in-laws can sometimes backfire, making you appear insincere or overly eager. Instead, stay calm and composed, and just be yourself. Be genuine, respectful, and comfortable with who you are, and they’re more likely to appreciate your authenticity.